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But buried toward the bottom of its About Us page is a fuzzy YouTube video that indicates a wider problem. The video is a defense of the company — directed at "haters" who have criticized Black Girl Travel for encouraging black women to date girls love black guys in girls love black guys countries. You can't find dates, you can't gils mates, you can't find husbands.

Weaver, a statuesque black woman flanked by two chic employees on either side, is all long lithe limbs and wavy hair. Her presence, despite the poor video quality, commands the screen.

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Don't shoot me! That's what's happening. She cites her research, census data that suggests that even if every black man chose to partner with a black woman, there would girls love black guys be 1. To get you to start thinking about dating interracially," Weaver says warmly. That's what you want, right?

And that's OK. But we know it's just not enough to go around! Weaver's not alone in her exhortation to black American women. The idea that we should travel abroad — particularly to Europe — gir,s find love has a home girls love black guys online discussion groups, travel websites, blogs, and Facebook pages, all of which earnestly and enthusiastically encourage us to "swirl," i.

Though they vary in tone — some are celebratory, extolling the joys of finding "Swirling Success in Sweden" while others are bear hard-nosed messages like "The Dating Truth for Black Women: Go to Europe and Don't Look Back" — every site insists that black women in America are better off looking for love blwck another country.

I first came across the encouragements to go to Europe and "swirl" when I was a junior in college preparing to study abroad in Sweden. Though I cringe to admit it now, I was lesdian girls by the possibility of a semester spent flirting with Swedes. As a painfully self-conscious biracial woman, I girls love black guys struggled to date at ladies looking sex RI Cranston 2921 Ivy League school, and studying abroad was as much an escape as it was a necessary academic endeavor for an international relations major.

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And while these sites say they intend to expose black women to a world of possibilities, the "possibilities" seem to predominantly feature black women with white men — a move that, intentionally or not, presents interracial dating as aspirational.

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Kim Butler, a data editor from California who moved to Germany inpushed back on the argument that Europe is a solution to black female singlehood girls love black guys her blog last year. She told me she's noticed many of the pro-"swirl" websites seem to be pushing one message: We'll just giros to Europe and find a white guy.

She's a former Los Angeles socialite who ran a once-popular site for affluent African-American Angelenos: And her statement was more or less repeated by nearly every one of the women I interviewed who advocate that black women date interracially and girls love black guys.

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Last year Miles, the chair of African-American studies at the University girls love black guys Michigan—Ann Arbor and a former MacArthur fellow, wrote about the issues facing black women and interracial live for the Huffington Post. While "in a perfect world love would be blind," she wrote, in the United States — and its polarized racial landscape in which black is essentially bad and white is essentially good — our romantic decisions are also thick horny bitches ones, whether we'd like them to girls love black guys or not.

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The practical, not the political, was certainly the driving force for Weaver when she founded Black Girl Travel. The company, which was originally named Bella Italia before expanding to other countries, arranges tours for groups ranging from fewer than 10 to over She could readily name all the women she's taken to Italy who are currently in relationships with, or married to, Italian men.

But she insisted that Black Girl Travel's purpose isn't girls love black guys convince black women horntown VA adult personals Europe is the solution to their singlehood. Weaver is speaking to what she calls "the 1. The women who, even if every black man chose to date a black woman, would still be left without a partner.

Because it assumes all black girls love black guys are heterosexual, this figure can't accurately convey the number of single black women seeking reggina hot male partner. But black men are more than girls love black guys as likely than black women to marry outside their race, perhaps because stereotypes about black men and sexuality increase their desirability — while comparable parallels aren't often available to black women.

According to some advocates of interracial dating, unlike black men, black women face a unique pressure to date within their race. We're the mules.

We're the mammies. We're not supposed to leave. We're supposed to be holding it. Karazin, who also spearheaded a controversial movement advocating against single motherhood in the black communtiy, describes tangled and knotted long-standing ideas about black desirability and femininity — or, the supposed girls love black guys thereof.

The slave trade turned black bodies into objects girls love black guys toil and labor, and made black women's bodies desirable largely in the context of rape, which allowed slave masters to exert further control over.

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As recently asscience or, "science" has been used to claim that black women are blavk unattractive. As black girls love black guys in the United States, we're told not only that we likely won't get married, based on oft-misconstrued statistics that apply only to women aged 25—29but that trying via modern conventions like online dating are probably futile — after all, we're also the least girls love black guys to get messaged in online dating.

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Malika Walker arrived in Rome two weeks ago as Weaver's new assistant. Her boss said she "can't even keep up with" how many dates Walker has been asked on since arriving. When I walked through the airport, I felt like a supermodel. Walker, who calls herself dark-skinned and repeatedly noted that she used to be heavier, moved to Italy from Atlanta, Ga.

In Atlanta, she explained, light-skinned ideals made it difficult for her to date, though she had long ago learned to find validation from within rather than. Chelsea Como, Weaver's other assistant who moved to Rome inechoed Walker's statements. As a self-identified "brown-skinned" woman in Miami, Fla. Lo body type," she told me. Lady seeking nsa NE Scottsbluff 69361 also admitted that getting honked at on the streets of Rome girls love black guys her initially feel uncomfortable.

Girls love black guys America, a white girl doesn't feel threatened at all by a black woman. An aspiring singer-songwriter who traveled with Weaver four times before making the move to Italy, Como said she girls love black guys started wearing her natural hair after she left the U. My thoughts have lingered longingly on this question — why, yes, I would want to be. Yet, in the context of this Euro-topia, I wonder what to make of those in Italy who've derided their cabinet minister, Cecile Kyenge, as a "Congolese monkey" leading a "bunga-bunga goverment.

And I'm at a loss to understand the actions of the Swedish minister of culture, who smiled at the opportunity to cut into a cake in the form of a black woman as the artist who created free rabbits in maryland screamed in agony, his face smeared in black paint. Some might say that sounds like a fetish sexy naked guys exotification, an issue many black women fear when they date interracially.

But Karazin chalked that up to "defensiveness," saying, "We're always so weary that if somebody appreciates what we look like and who we are, then we automatically go into the mode of 'Oh, they're fetishizing me. Having girls love black guys increasingly frustrated for years by incessant and unsolicited comments about how I look, I have shielded myself to the point that I sometimes wonder whether I'm too quick to judge.

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But in my experience, the "keen interest" I've received from men in the European nations I've traveled to have been more about exotification than genuine appreciation. My skin, facial features, and hair have all been subjects of questioning and prodding, and on one occasion, in Romania, I left girls love black guys public pool after an older man, who stared relentlessly for several minutes, eventually retrieved his cell girls love black guys and attempted to take pictures of me from a bench.

She recalled a particular conversation she had with the cousin of an rocky first date.

After he deemed her "exotic," Butler told him that German people were also exotic to. After all, she had never met an ethnic German before her boyfriend.

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