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My partner has a friend whose reactions to transgender people had not always been very positive. But when my when my partner came out to her, she was really supportive. I discussed transgenderism with people before telling them and for me it has been really useful. With support from people around you it is easier to cope but I realise that not everyone has close friends and family to lean on who would be supportive in this situation.
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There might be an email group like a yahoo group that is for partners, but I have never been able find one that was useful. Often there were not enough members or information being posted. Some have had minor facial feminising surgery such as a nose job or jaw line. Other have just taken hormones and been content with.
There are so many ways to go about it. You might find the most useful thing to do is to find a group for partners that meets in person. Sarah, try this community — https: Transgender Rights: Family Rights Project.
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You love who your with, and you find it unimaginable to be without them… but there you are… alone…. Lisa, being trans is hard. I am sorry that your partner has left you. Perhaps you could try couples counselling? Often the pressure of transition for both parties is hugely stressful.
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